Expectations ... Expectations

In the case of uncertainty, expectation is what is considered the most likely to happen. An expectation, which is a belief that is centred on the future, may or may not be realistic. A less advantageous result gives rise to the emotion of disappointment. If something happens that is not at all expected it is a surprise. An expectation about the behavior or performance of another person, expressed to that person, may have the nature of a strong request, or an order.

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Now i firmly believe that expectations can be categorised in 3 ways:

1. You are having expectations from someone, without the other person's knowledge ( Most of

the time) lets say A is having expecations from B But B hasnt given any

commitment, or B is not aware of it.

2 . You are thinking on some lines of it but actually the other person has himself

offered you those expectations or made you feel it.Lets say B has himself told A

that this will be the thing or situtation or future.

3. Both the party is having expectations from each other and are aware of this else they both

are doing it without expressing it.A & B both are involved.

May be some other person can have different perspective to it but i think that in case...

• If you are falling in first category then please grow up and speak.A should not burden or kill B. Let other person tell whether he/she would be able to fulfill them or not.And B if you are getting these vibes from A then better you react and tell A.Dont be a dumb guy.

• If you are falling in second category then there can be two probabilities-
• As A - Please dont feel bad if B is not doing what he has commited or told.If you really care about B then stay calm and give some time.May be it will work but if things are not changing then you try to build your dreams or anything for that matter.Why the hell you sulk, wait and lose on life/time, Why you gotta think about B or any damn person on earth.
• As B - If you have genuinely given it a shot or moved yourself a bit then i m sure A will not utter a single word, In case you simply cant do it then start accepting it and comprehending same to A right now before A loses his patience , if you are still trying then express it with love and gesture, re-assure A but for God sake if you have realised that you are not worth it or you cannot do it then its your responsibilty to tell A clearly about things and let go A.

• If you are lying in third category then congratulations you guys truly have homo-sapiens trait. You both have to make some ground rules and some limit to fulfill each others expectations else you both will lose the charm and company or vice-versa would love the company of eachother life long.

Now the fact - We all are looking for some one who just believe in doing and giving without expecting anything back in return which means Unconditional Love..Sounds really great but Can you be the one for somebody too ??????